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She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

Ian Kerner

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Ian Kerner Amazon Price: $15.74
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Total reviews: 120 Average rating: 4.5 of 5

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"When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price

The Low Down on Going Down: How to Give Her Mind-Blowing Oral Sex

Marcy Michaels, Marie Desalle

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Total reviews: 23 Average rating: 4.5 of 5

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Keep her coming back for more…
 
It’s nothing to be ashamed of.  When it comes to performing oral sex, most people fall somewhere between fumbling and clueless.  But now, in The Lowdown on Going Down you’ll find practical, easy-to-master techniques that will give you the confidence and skills you need to become an expert in the delicate art of cunnilingus.
 
Inside you’ll find:

• Exercises to whip your tongue, lips, and jaw into shape so you can perform with exquisite control
• An anatomy class you need to pass
• Sensual kisses to get you both ready for the main event
• Sure-fire methods for getting her to climax again and again
• Advice on how to keep your mind from spoiling your head
• Advanced techniques to wake up the neighbors
• Positions that will make her purr
 
Read The Lowdown on Going Down alone or with the companion edition, Blow Him Away for mind-blowing oral sex—every time.

Tantric Secrets for Men: What Every Woman Will Want Her Man to Know about Enhancing Sexual Ecstasy

Kerry Riley

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Total reviews: 4 Average rating: 5.0 of 5

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Contains everything a man needs to know in order to be a good lover, based on esoteric traditions of sexual ecstasy.


• Includes practical and easy-to-follow Tantric rituals and sacred sexuality exercises for a modern lifestyle.


• Uses real-life stories of couples to show the benefits achieved with the practices.


• Offers an approach to lovemaking that encompasses all dimensions--physical, emotional, and spiritual.


Being a good lover isn't easy. With more freedom, knowledge, and body awareness, today's woman knows better than to settle for predictable, performance-based sex. Tantric Secrets for Men offers everything a man needs to know in order to satisfy a woman's physical, emotional, and spiritual yearnings. Employing the ancient secrets of physical ecstasy, men learn to transform rote sex into passionate lovemaking, pleasure into ecstasy, and partnership into union. 

From the expert teachings of a committed couple practicing and teaching ecstatic sexuality in a modern-day context, men will learn how to satisfy a woman on the levels of body, heart, and soul--and how to bring themselves to new heights of ecstasy in the process. The authors draw upon time-honored tantric and Taoist practices and modern sexology that will enable couples to make love more frequently, achieve higher and prolonged states of orgasmic intensity, experience lovemaking as a sacred endeavor, and deepen loving relationships.

The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know

Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams

The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams Amazon Price: $13.22
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Total reviews: 64 Average rating: 4.0 of 5

Like going from the stone age to interstellar travel 5 out of 5 stars.
11 of 14 people found this review helpful.

My primary motivation was to give women better orgasms. If you can control your own ejaculation, you can give more attention to the effect your sexuality is having on your woman. Once you learn how sexual energy moves inside of you, you can sense how your own sexual energy moves inside your woman and how you can direct it to intensifying her experience. She will be very grateful.

The main trick is to be able to avoid and redirect ejaculation. This allows the sexual energy to build up in your body. Women can feel this power in you. When you ejaculate, you emasculate yourself energetically. My current girlfriend melts and swoons at the thought of me. She says her molecules change in my presence. She asks me, don't other women feel this in you? I say yes they do. She says how do you know? I say I can feel their molecules changing.

The book is remarkable for pinpointing exactly where you may be losing control over the energy circulating inside of you and how you can remove any impediments to the maximum utilization of your sexual energy. This energy is Life Force itself, and when you learn to master it, you will discover more personal power and integrity in yourself and you will be more powerful and directed in all aspects of your life. Other men will trust you more, your business drive will increase, women will be drawn to you.

It took me 6 months of practice to reorient my energetic patterns, which had been unchanged for 40 years. Now, ejaculations have about as much appeal as the release felt sneezing. You will not want to ejaculate anymore once you master your energetic body. The power felt coursing through your body will be a thrill like continuous orgasm.

I read that other men skipped the breathing exercises. They were key for me. I can now induce an energetic orgasm by just breathing consciously. This makes me feel ecstatically alive. The sexual energy is not contained by your woman. She is just a concentrated version of the feminine energy that pervades the universe. It is here for your pleasure and will welcome you into its embrace.

The non-ejaculatory orgasms are completely unlike the squirting kind. They go on and on with blissful intensity, completely unrelated to any other experience I have ever had, but they come closest to the hallucinogenic experiences of LSD or peyote. People report experiencing god on those drugs, and I can tell you that experience is available to anyone who wants to take the time to cultivate it in them.

Editorial Review:

How many men can experience mutliple orgasms and dramatically enhance his sexual relationship

Offering men clear and practical guidelines for researching their real but seldom realized sexual potential, The Multi-Orgasmic Man vividly explores these extraordinary facts:

  • By learning to separate orgasm and ejaculation -- two distinct physical processes -- men can transform the momentary release of ejaculation into countless peaks of whole body orgasms.
  • Men who experience multiple orgasms -- by avoiding the fatigue and depletion that follow ejaculation -- report increased vitality and longevity.
  • 101 Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples

    Laura Corn

    101 Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples Laura Corn List Price: $29.95
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    Total reviews: 116 Average rating: 4.0 of 5

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    "Is your sex life perfect?" challenges Laura Corn in the introduction to her delightful and unique 101 Nights of Grrreat Sex. If the title, with its guarantee of "grrreat sex twice a week, every week, for one full year!" won't tempt you, the packaging will. Like the cover says, "Go ahead, tear this book up.... please!" Intriguingly packaged, 101 Nights is reminiscent of the book-in-plain-brown-wrapper, except in this case each page is sealed; no peeking! Once a week, according to 101's instructions, each lover picks a sealed page (with scenarios such as "Up Against the Wall," "Angel with a Lariat," "Fire down Below," and "Point of No Return") and tears it out of the book, keeping it a secret. Follow the scenario and, throughout the week, expect any number of erotic surprises.

    We let life get in the way of love, Laura Corn states, and worries in the way of wonder. At the heart of this book is the assertion that surprise and anticipation rekindle passion: "This is not like some new diet, where you're expected to simply change your lifestyle overnight. Here, you'll learn by doing--slowly, gradually, month by month. And because you're doing it often--every week, remember, for a whole year--you'll actually turn interesting, exhilarating, unpredictable sex into a habit, and not just a special event."

    There are 50 secret seductions written for his eyes only and 50 written for hers. His seductions begin with playful ways of not just getting her in the mood, but making her breathless with anticipation. Hers begin with the revelation of "Marilyn Monroe's sensual bedroom secret that drove her lovers wild (and caused JFK's toes to curl!)."

    All it takes is a commitment to play and, well, to tear up the book. 101 Nights does all the rest, including lists of ingredients (massage oil, silk scarf, champagne,etc.) as well as terse tips culled from 54 of the bestselling books in the field. Loaded with recipes for licentious loving, 101 Nights of Grrreat Sex gives lovers permission to sin with the safety of a script and a fun way to palpate the old passion.

    Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex

    PhD Robert J Rubel

    Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex PhD Robert J Rubel Amazon Price: $13.57
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    Total reviews: 9 Average rating: 4.5 of 5

    Good venture into a female focused sex book 4 out of 5 stars.
    11 of 12 people found this review helpful.

    While there are things I would like to see expanded in this book and a poor choice of Wikipedia for some of the information, it is a good book that looks at sex as something far more than penis-vagina intercourse. The focus of this book is on making sexual intimacy primarily about female pleasure with the idea that penetration then may follow and indeed sexual encounters increase when the woman is very well pleased with her partner (male or female). The language of the book is more appealing for men I strongly suspect but then men are the target audience. As long as the reader does not see the book as a step by step list of activities he must do and considers the questions and underlining goals, he'll get good use of the book. Sadly as a scholar the use of Wikipedia instead of peer reviewed studies of human sexuality or anatomy automatically knocks off a star for me in the review.

    Editorial Review:

    This book is both for married men and for single men. I wrote this book because I have never seen anything like it in print. It's taken me many years of reading and application to master this material, and if I'd had such a book decades ago, it would have changed my sex life forever.

    The Complete Idiot's Guide to Pleasing Your Woman (Complete Idiot's Guide to)

    Eve Salinger

    The Complete Idiot's Guide to Pleasing Your Woman (Complete Idiot's Guide to) Eve Salinger Amazon Price: $11.53
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    Total reviews: 5 Average rating: 4.5 of 5

    Hip, wise, funny, and practical too. 5 out of 5 stars.
    13 of 14 people found this review helpful.

    Lots of books like this are only about sex, but everyone knows there is a lot more to making your partner happy and keeping your relationship fresh. Unlike Sigmund Freud, Eve Salinger knows what women want -- in bed and out of it. Any man who reads this book will get very, very lucky. (And so will his woman!)

    Extremely Wise yet funny 5 out of 5 stars.
    13 of 13 people found this review helpful.

    THE IDIOT'S GUIDE TO PLEASING YOUR WOMAN is just what the title says. As with other Idiot's Guides, the book has entertaining illustrations and very helpful ideas in every category of interpersonal relationships. Even if you have been successful in pleasing your woman, you will learn a lot of tips that will make your skills better and delight your mate. Every relationship will benefit from this! And what a terrific Wedding Gift for any man taking the steps to the altar.

    Editorial Review:

    Be her dream lover—tonight and every night …

    The perfect companion to The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Pleasing Your Man, this witty and insightful guide teaches men how to give pleasure to the women in their lives. More than just a sex guide, The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Pleasing Your Woman touches on every aspect of a meaningful relationship, from keeping the romance alive and deepening intimacy to the importance of foreplay and making a woman happy.

    Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy

    Mantak Chia

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    Total reviews: 11 Average rating: 3.5 of 5

    Trim the fat and get your facts straight, Mantak. 2 out of 5 stars.
    42 of 58 people found this review helpful.

    The main problem with this book is that the idea of chi is presented in such a low-brow Western terminology that the concept nearly lost. References to "Tongue Kung Fu". "Air" and the Cranial "Pump" tend to deflate and demystify the spiritual ideology. Literal english translations or even the retention of his own native language would have showed more respect for the subject.

    Chia's teachings of meditation seem accurate enough but make one fatal flaw. The whole book - all of the various levels of the energy transference exercises - lead to or stem from the Microcosmic Orbit. Through out the book, Chia states that energy moves from the sexual region, up through the body and is stored in the head.

    Why would he say that and then state in one of his other books, Awaken Healing Energy of the Tao, that proper storage of this energy, after moving through the head, should be in the navel. Anyone familiar with t'ai chi knows that the navel is the center point to all of your body's energy. To store such energies in the head can lead to insanity. Very irresponsible on his part.

    At the end of the book, I suppose in an effort to cover all bases, everything from the pubococcygeal muscle to refexology gets a paragraph or two. Needless to say that several Chia's notions on tangible sexual issues could use a bit more research. For example, Chia makes reference to how ingesting semen "is at least as rational as buying vitamins" as it is a "treasure house" of vitamins and minerals. Anyone worth his salt knows that it only contains trace elements.

    That statement alone makes me question just how accurate the rest of the book is. (Chia, of course, doesn't condone this sort of behavior, for you see, according to him, loss of this fluid can lead to baldness and premature death - hence the books whole stand point of retention and recirculating the energy contained within to other vital areas of the body.)

    Where Chia really lost me, however, is when he suggested that women practicing exercises in this book "should keep [their] panties on to prevent any chi from draining out."

    How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know

    Lou Paget

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    Total reviews: 75 Average rating: 4.0 of 5

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    "Women are like golf courses," writes sex educator Lou Paget. "Even though you may have played a course a hundred times, chances are your approach shot rarely lands in the same place on the green." How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure was written for men who want to please women. Much of the book focuses on foreplay (Paget comments that we need to rename it) designed to "excite both her mind and her body." The author offers a variety of strategies for romancing and relaxing a woman and making her feel comfortable. If you don't, she claims, "nothing you can do can rev her engine". Then she describes ways of "kissing her, touching her, and teasing her." Paget includes "a topographical guide" of a woman's body, starting with the sensual areas of the head and face and moving down. She describes ways to massage, caress, lick, kiss, and otherwise excite all these regions. She also discusses lubricants ("slippery, slidy, marvelous stuff"), condoms, manual stimulation, "the art of tongue," sex toys, and a variety of positions (clearly illustrated) for everything you might do. The book is in no way formulaic--in fact, Paget continually stresses that some women love having a particular body part touched in a certain way, while others can't stand it. Whether you're a novice or consider yourself sexually sophisticated, you'll learn plenty from Paget. --Joan Price

    The New Male Sexuality, Revised Edition

    Bernie Zilbergeld

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    Total reviews: 15 Average rating: 3.5 of 5

    EXCELLENT BOOK - BUT DR ZILBERGELD BADLY NEEDS TO DO AN UPDATE 4 out of 5 stars.
    14 of 23 people found this review helpful.

    I've just read The New Male Sexuality and I've got to say, I'm really impressed... It is so rare to find a self-help book FOR MEN (most of that genre is very female oriented) and Dr Zilbergeld is very male-positive...

    I also liked how he discussed the socialization of little boys - how young males learn that they should supress their feelings - "boys don't cry" - and the doctor's theory that this is the cause of much misery for adult males...

    I heartily agree with Zilbergeld's conclusions here...

    I only have a few criticisms...

    Dr Zilbergeld tends to have a sociobiological view of modern behavior - he tends to present cultural gender roles as if they are biologically determined... This tends to undermine his arguments about male socialization (and, due to the radical differences in gender behavior in different societies, this view is fundamentally incorrect)

    Also, Dr Zilbergeld tends to assume that every male is in a long term monogomous relationship... This is far from true (hell, that's the reason that I brought this book in the first place) and it would be helpful if he focused more of his advice for guys like me who don't have a woman..

    Finally, the biggest flaw...

    Apparently, Zilbergeld originally wrote this book a long time ago (the copyright info says the first edition was published in 1992)... and it shows...

    Women (especialy women my age and younger - I'm 38) have changed a whole hell of a lot...

    When Zelbergeld did the surveys, apparently most women were still looking for love and didn't like sex for sex's sake, like men stereotypically do...

    THIS IS NO LONGER THE CASE...

    In my experience over the last decade or so, many women these days basically dislike men...

    They need males because men, on average, make more money than women (but women have a higher cost of living) and, of course, most women want to have babies, and you can't do that without male DNA... other than cash and genetic material, they'd rather not be bothered with us...

    Also, many modern women can be as crass, vulgar and unemotional about sex as only men used to be...

    For instance, in the section on penis size, Dr Zilbergeld claims that "size doesn't matter" to most women and women are, supposedly, very understanding about males who are 'undersized'

    I beg to differ...

    In my experience, women are VERY much concerned about size... and you WILL get ridiculed if the woman you're with thinks you are inadequate in that department....

    The same for performance issues - if you aren't up to the task, many women will get really mad and start insulting you (they might even accuse you of being gay)

    Women aren't as nice as they used to be....

    There probably wern't that many of these women out there when Dr Zilbergeld did his original surveys....

    There most certainly are now (especially in places like Manhattan, where I live)...

    It's not as simple as it used to be... and assuming that all women aspire to a deep emotional connection above all else can be a very dangerous thing to do...

    Basically, I think that Dr Zilbergeld needs to do an updating of this otherwise excellent book (but with all new interviews of this new generation of women - who are VERY different than their mothers and grandmothers when it comes to sexuality)

    Still, this is an excellent read and a must buy for men looking for serious relationship advice intended for a male audience...

    Editorial Review:

    The New Male Sexuality addresses the most urgent questions of men today--and of the women who love them.  Bernie Zilbergeld reports findings from his twenty years as a psychologist specializing in human sexuality, as well as those other experts in the field, and shares his own and his clients' experiences.  the result is the most comprehensive guide ever to enhancing desire and arousal, focusing on pleasure rather than performance, and keeping sex exciting and fulfilling.

    Clear, comprehensive, witty, and refreshingly realistic, The New Male Sexuality is destined to be a classic of the nineties and beyond.


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